My stepdad is a sorry excuse for a human. He is pathologically envious
for no reason. We all feel envy of a better job, car, home, even of a person
with a better body. It is an irrational emotion which in particular divides
women. A twit I once knew was envious of thin people. She was gluttous and fat,
so why envy those with self control? She was so weighed down with envy it made
her bitter. She was no sister even though her life was one of privelage. She
was in a position to help out poorer folk instead she stole from those less
well of. She reminds me of my stepdad, who also leads a comfortable life, yet
thinks that others have better. Well in a way he is right, others have loving
relationship s based on loyalty and trust, which he is envious of . He has none
of the above qualities, but thinks he is entitled to the love of
those whose loyalty and trust he has abused. Worse of all he envies what he
does not deserve . Well, nature hates a vacuum, so if you are lacking positive
traits the gaping hole will be filled by negative resentment. That is all narcs
feel. My stepdad if full of unnecessary animosity because he has nothing else
to offer us emotionally.
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