FEAR

Fear the male next door. Fear limits all women. Fear the rapist. Fear the troll. Fear the vengeful ex with nude photos. Fear the stalker. Fear the drunk stepdad. Fear the wife beater. Fear the the groper boss. Fear the bad tempered neighbour. Fear, fear, fear. Even fear a stranger in a nightclub. I will never go to a nightclub. My decision makes me safe but limits where I go. If I did go I would be covered, sober and home early. Sensible yes, but mostly based on abject fear of sex abuse. Fear limits all opportunity s in life for us girls. It determines where we go, who we live with, how we dress, how we talk to men, for example I don’t flirt with any of them. I choose not to because I don’t want to be seen as a tease. Would it be fun if one had to be turned down as he had misread you? He would call you a bitch to everyone. I want a peaceful life which means no sexy talk, sexy clothes, sexy appearance, no clubbing, and no befriend ING the creep in work, who thinks friendly chat is a come on. I am cautious around all males because I live in fear of predators. My fear boxes me in verbally, physically, and sexually. We women never leave down our guard, and we will never lead full lives. Our lives are controlled by fear of men no matter how strong and successful we are.

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